Normality has not yet been achieved!

It's hard to know how to help when a friend's in trouble, not the sort where there's any kind of easy fix, more somebody declaring that her life is in the toilet and nothing works. Not that I was asked to do anything practical, just to be a ranting post which I was glad to do. I just wish I *could* think of something useful. One of the things was her garden looks like a junkyard which is pretty well correct and that I can help with, soon as the heat drops a bit. The rest, especially the bits about her husband, well - definitely not qualified to comment there - though she may be right that he is developing advanced "Old Fartism."
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