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Alex Isle [Rattfan] ([personal profile] rattfan) wrote2014-04-01 09:03 am

Parent dramas

There I am at 6.20 pm last night, bumbling along half asleep on autopilot, headed for the train home. Phone rings. In possibly the noisiest city environment at that time, I try to find out who's calling me. I suspect it's a call centre that has discovered my number.

It's George. Friend of Mum's. She's had a fall. All I can get after that is the hospital's name and 'fractured femur.' I think it's femur. Only after I got home could I end panic stations, when I was able to have a clear conversation with George and his wife Vicki, who'd been with Mum when she had a pratfall and hauled her off to hospital over her protests that she's sure it's not that bad.

Now she's got to have a hip replacement. "You mean the one that hasn't already been replaced?" I asked for clarity. "Right, now they'll balance up," George assured me. So she's headed for surgery today and then it'll be weeks of fun, judging from last time.

[identity profile] ecosopher.livejournal.com 2014-04-01 02:29 am (UTC)(link)
Oh, Alex. I'm so sorry about your mum. And I hope she recovers quickly -- both for the sake of her own health and mobility, and for your sanity :/

[identity profile] ratfan.livejournal.com 2014-04-01 01:39 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh yes. I was deliberately vague in my statement of who was going to have the fun.....

[identity profile] gillpolack.livejournal.com 2014-04-01 06:20 am (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry to hear this - for all of you. At least once the replacement is in and settled 9which is a task and a half - I remember this from my mother having it) she will be less fragile.

[identity profile] ratfan.livejournal.com 2014-04-01 01:41 pm (UTC)(link)
As I'm painfully aware. Mum already has a replaced hip. As of today, though, they have discovered it's not as bad as they thought, so the hip is only pinned, rather than replaced. Hopefully this cuts down on the recovery time.

[identity profile] gillpolack.livejournal.com 2014-04-01 09:20 pm (UTC)(link)
I hope so!